Last week, the annual Met Gala brought together the world's biggest names for the annual display of haute couture and general splendor.
Tickets cost $75,000, and the night itself was clearly an “let them eat cake'' celebration of luxury and exclusivity.
Galas don't always go down well with people who feel that they're an embarrassing waste of money, time, and attention, and frivolous at best.
And since we are a people with little patience for frivolity these days, it's surprising how some activists, many of them pro-Palestinian youth, reacted to this spectacle. Although it should not have happened, the scene unfortunately coincided with Israel's announcement of a military offensive in Rafah.
The movement, which originated under the hashtag #blockout2024, aims to block and deplatform celebrities who fail to express support for Gaza by encouraging their followers to do so.
The movement's originator, TikTok creator @ladyfromtheoutside, said in a viral video that it was time for a “digital guillotine.” “Now is the time to block all celebrities, influencers and wealthy socialites who don't use their resources to help people in serious situations,” she said. We gave them a platform. It's time to take it back and take away our opinions, likes, comments and money. ”
Celebrities on the target list include Zendaya, Justin Bieber, the Kardashians and Selena Gomez. I think Taylor Swift is also in it.
I deeply understand this frustration. These days we are too often distracted by beautiful people in beautiful clothes. There are many other things that are worth our time and attention.
but. Although I clearly think celebrities and influencers wield too much power through their platforms…why do we have to ask celebrities to give us well-thought-out opinions on world events, let alone a coherent plan of action? I'm wondering what you would expect to have.
I understand the value of platforms, and I think people who own large platforms should treat them responsibly…
But these people are under no obligation to share their personal beliefs with the world on topics that have virtually nothing to do with their livelihood or skill set.
Yes, you can raise awareness and encourage donations. yes. And if you can do that, great.
But it's not their duty (and while we do, it's also not their duty to agree 100% with these protesters about the very obviously complex situation in the Middle East) .
Perhaps there is some wisdom in knowing when you do so. shouldn't Rather than talk, leave it to someone more knowledgeable.
I also think there is value in enjoying luxurious time.
For example, I spent long, glorious evenings sitting at my laptop sifting through photos and analyzing each look with my best friend (if you're interested, my best-dressed award winner was Tyra , Gigi Hadid, and the endlessly elegant Jeff Goldblum).
Once every last sequin was appreciated, I returned to my phone and news alerts, my kids' class schedules, and the question of what to make for dinner.
I was reminded of all that remains to be done and done at home and around the world.
But for a few minutes I was just looking at the pretty dress. And it felt good.
