IIt has already been reported that Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez may have agreed to a divorce, but the two are currently living apart to reflect and put an end to their marriage. However, many media outlets trying to find answers as to why this marriage ended so quickly are starting to find clues. They think they already know the exact moment the couple realized their marriage was destined to fall apart, and they managed to get exclusive information. According to In Touch Weekly, Ben Affleck was the first one to raise the red flags that he really didn't like Jennifer Lopez's behavior. It all happened at a specific moment in the first few months of their marriage.
Jennifer Lopez hits Italian beach without her assistant and Ben Affleck
The moment Ben and Jennifer started breaking up
According to this account from In Touch Weekly, while working on her documentary, The Greatest Story Ever Told, they both realized the relationship wasn't going to work. In one scene in the footage, Ben describes the moment he was shocked to realize that Jennifer Lo had given her love letters that she had written to songwriters during the making of her album, This Is Me… Now. Affleck said he always felt that this aspect of their love story was private and that it was something he never expected. Elsewhere in the documentary, Jennifer admitted that she knew Affleck was uncomfortable with her doing this, but didn't stop him because she was convinced their love was stronger than that.
In fact, Lopez said that at one point Ben Affleck couldn't stop her from doing what she wanted, so there was nothing she could do about it. Then things changed between the couple and they realized that they were completely different people. That's when their marriage started to fall apart. While Lopez seems addicted to being in the spotlight, Ben Affleck prefers a quiet life away from the spotlight. It's like oil and water, they never mix. When they realized they wanted different things in life, everything started to fall apart.
